ti ho sposata (prima parte)

Da oggi in poi su questo blog sarà pubblicata  una storia d'amore ogni 48 ore. I nomi e i luoghi utilizzati in queste storie sono puramente di fantasia.

 1.Ho ricevuto una lettera

Mi sono svegliato di lunedì mattina presto, ho aperto le finestre della mia stanza, ma la giornata era così ventosa e fredda, che ho dovuto chiudere e scappare a fare una doccia calda. Poi mi sono lavato i denti. Alle 08:30 circa ore il campanello alla mia porta squillò. Guardando attraverso la finestra non riuscivo a vedere nessuno ... "Chi  è ...?"- ho detto. Nessuno rispose. " Ma chi è ...?"- ho chiamato più forte ancora. Ho sentito una moto davanti alla porta del mio vicino e ho capito che era il postino, così sono andato a controllare nella cassetta della posta e ho trovato una lettera "A: James Sinkala" Wow! Che magnifica giornata, mi sono detto sulla via del ritorno nella mia stanza. Ho aperto la lettera, era del mio amico d' infanzia  Chrispine Chishimba:

"Caro James,

spero che tu stia bene lì e che i tuoi studi procedano. Qui stiamo tutti bene, ma ci manchi tu amico.

Ti scrivo per congratularmi con te per l'articolo che hai scritto in "CHALLENGE MAGAZINE " dal titolo "QUAL  È IL MIO DESIDERIO". L'ho letto con attenzione e mi è piaciuto davvero molto. Infatti, la maggior parte dei miei amici e miei colleghi che l'hanno letto, hanno fatto buoni commenti e alcuni di loro hanno suggerito che si dovrebbe scrivere un libro e condividere qualcosa di più sull'influenza interna ed esterna, nel processo decisionale'. Ero d'accordo con loro perché nella maggior parte dei casi mi sono trovato tra il diavolo e il mare profondo ogni volta che ho preso una decisione fondamentale e molte volte ho avuto dei rimpianti dopo. Comunque non vedo l'ora di leggere la seconda parte del tuo articolo.

Inoltre, amico, ti ricordi di una ragazza di nome Florence? Era seduta accanto a te alla mia festa di compleanno. Ti manda i suoi saluti. Amico, quella ragazza è pazza di te. Da quel giorno non ha mai smesso di parlare di te. Ama la tua personalità e ti descrive come un ragazzo serio. Ti piacerebbe mandarle un bigliettino di saluto quando mi rispondi? Lei lo apprezzerebbe tantissimo. Spero non considererai la mia richiesta  come  "influenze esterne" .... ah ah ah -)) Continua a studiare duro amico. Spero di rivederti presto.

Un abbraccio forte forte

Chishimba “.

I married you (part 3)

Loving can also mean that entering in dialogue with a person you do not know. The different can be race, culture or background. Hence, you need to be courageous enough to face this reality in life... Last time you shared me a story where your father was stopping you from going out with girls but I think that time as gone, by then your father had a reason but now, you are in university and you are 29. I don’t think you can’t handle a relationship.” I’m listening, “yea because if you cannot start dating now, it will be difficult when you start working to make up a good choice. On the other hand, when you are working it’s hard to know the real lover because many are the times when women comes open to you in the name of love but in reality they just follow money and material things but if you come all along with a girl, you will be able to understand her, because you have summered and wintered with her. ” I nod my head to show him I agreed with what he was saying. “In your reply just ask your friend to send you her phone number” No Marco, I answered fast, I thought of that but I don’t want to talk to her, I’m afraid to give her false hopes, maybe I will do that after seeing her... You remember that story on Striscia notizia TV programme? Striscia notizia, is a programme that comes on Italian TV channel, where they show live meetings of partners who have never seen each other before... One day they showed a man who was waiting to meet her partner on stage before cameras and later came a beautiful lady on a wheelchair... Ha ha ha Marco, laughed, “Jemas, the problem is you think too much, anyway that on striscia notiza was really funny… But did you learn that later the man married that lady?” sure!! No I did not know, “yes the man married the lady and they showed their wending on TG24hrs TV channel” Anyway, I will reply to the letter as soon as I have time.

We reached in no time at my professor’s house and we left professor’s home around 15:30hrs. Marco, left his car at the school car park so I had to escort him there. On my way back home, I found an accident just before, getting into the high way road. The Police men who were recording the cause of accident closed the road from both sides and I remained in the queue for over 30 minutes. While in the queue I started reflecting on Marco’s words. My heart was already in love with this unknown Florence. I think Marco, had a point it’s high time I took courage and get into a serious relationship. “Boyi the girl just went crazy about” I remember the words in the letter and I smiled... Later on, the police allowed the one way road and slowly-slowly we started moving until I passed. The accident happened when a car hit a bicyclist and he died on the spot, I saw the bicycle besides the road and the dead body was there covered in a blanket, while the ambulance was there as the police men were taking marks on the scene... I was filled with fear after seeing the blood on the road like that...

I reached home in no time. Oh!! My God, what a tough day, I said to myself while sitting on the chair. As I was relaxing while listening to Zambian music I started dozing. Hence, I went in room to take a nap, which I over slept and I wake-up around 18:30hrs. Fast I went through Tuesday’s work and after super I went in library to look for some books my professor indicated for my thesis. When I was studying, I failed to capture my mind and concentrate, my mind was away. Hence, I stop and went in bed early. Before, sleeping, I read the letter once more, the part I liked in that letter is where he wrote“…. Boyi, do you remember a girl by the name of Florence who sat next to you on my birthday party at my place? She is greeting you. The girl boyi just went crazy about you. Since that time she has been talking about you. She loved your personality and she describes you as a serious person...” come on, I tried to distract my mind… maybe Chishimba was just making funny of me, knowing that I’m still single; I thought. For sure I had curiosity of knowing that girl. Anyway I will ask Chishimba more about this girl in my reply. I slept while holding the letter in hands...

Weeks passed but I did not forget replying a letter to my friend, I was thinking about it but I had no time to sit down and compose him a letter. I wanted to finish first writing the first part of my thesis before Christmas. On Saturday, I decided to reply to Chishimba’s and on Tuesday I posted it:

i married you (part 2)

After reading the letter I was taken in thoughts, trying to remember who Florence was. I didn’t remember any girl sitting next to me that day... I checked my watch and it was 09:10hrs... “Oh!! My Goodness I’m late”- I said… I had a discussion at school with my colleagues and it was my turn to present that week. It used to take 15 minutes by car to get to the university. I dressed up faster than ever in a jean trousers and a nice shirt that Chishimba bought for me when I left Zambia. I arrived to the university 30 minutes late. I ran up the stairs unto the third floor where we agreed to meet in room 8... I found everyone sited down waiting for me. I excused myself before the class but Nicolas a Polish said: “James, you might have an excuse for coming late, but we are not interested in it, just give us your work’s outline... While he was saying that, I heard in the backroom an Indian classmate saying “l’Africa l’Africa…” This time I felt offended, even though we used to joke like that each time someone came late to the classroom. Nevertheless, since I was the victim, I kept silence and started to distribute the paper without saying a word.

Even though I was present in that meeting my mind was absent. I was so much taken by the complements Florence made me through my friend… Days seemed to pass so slowly, that I couldn’t wait for the school year to finish. It was November and there were still 5 months remaining for holidays, which started in March... When I was at the university, the desire to have a girlfriend was growing each day. What could stop me from having the girlfriend of my choice?

After the discussion, I went with Marco to talk with the professor who was helping me to write my thesis. Marco is the only Italian student in our class. He was very intelligent and had a good character. On the way I told him about the letter. “Wow!! Dear friend, don’t miss that girl” Marco said. But Marco, how can I get in touch with a girl that I don’t even remember? I asked him; “James you are no longer a child, you are a man now”, he immediately replied while laughing at me; it’s been a long time you came out of that shell and I know that true love scares but your matter is not that different than how I started my relationship with Hellen”. I interrupted him..: No Marco, you and Hellen have been friends for a long time. He answered: “even though, we just met once, things started from there.

During 2009’s summer vacation, we went for a scout camping in the mountains for about four days and ever since we came to know each other. Afterwards we never saw each other again for over 3 months. In the course of that period we just exchanged letters and messages on facebook and now our love for each other has grown a lot. I can’t complain, she is all I need for my life.” Marco, right after you’ve met, you started to communicate, my situation is different, I replied. “What do you mean it’s different? James, love is art and if you are not an artist then you are not a man but an animal. I think Florence is an artist who wants to build up a relationship from love at first sight. You said she didn’t tell you a word that day, did she?” he asked. Yes, I answered, while giving him the chance to continue: “yea, because if she then said something like that, you might thought she is just one of those poor girls who takes advantage of occasions like that one to trap guys.”

Marco, but you know what..? I’m very scared to fall in love now; I mean falling in love is quire to disappointments and heart breaks “James is this all you know about love? I can assure you that you will never marry an angle from heaven, I mean in every relationship there are problems but it’s a duty of lovers to set up rules of dos and don’ts, In life if you are not ready to take risks you will never move on... Love is the most wonderful of all things in life, I believe, the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a glowing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase is not an easy thing… This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing, it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of Divine accident.

I married you. (part 1)

“I married you”

From today onwards on this blod we I shall be posting a love story every after a 48hours. The names and places used in this story has nothing to do with the individuals.

1. I received a letter

Waking up early on a Monday morning, I opened my room’s windows, but the day was so windy and cold, that I had to close them up and went to take a warm shower. After it, I brushed my teeth. Around 08:30hrs my door’s bell rang. Looking through out the window I couldn’t see anyone... “Who is it...?”- I said, nobody answered, “who is there...?”- I called louder again. Later, I heard a motorcycle on my neighbor’s gate and realized it was the postman, so I went out to check our mailbox and I found a letter “To: James Sinkala ” Wow!! What a lovely day, I said to myself, on the way back to my room. I opened the letter; it was from my childhood’s friend Chrispine Chishimba,

“Dear James,

I hope you are doing fine there and that you are doing well with your studies. Here we are all fine, just that we are missing you boyi.

I’m writing to congratulate you for the good article you’ve wrote in “CHALLENGA MAGAZINE” entitled “WHAT IS MY DESIRE”. I read it attentively and really liked it mwandi. Indeed, most of my friends and my workmates who read it, made good comments and some of them suggested that you should write a book and share us more about the “inner and external influence, in decision making”. I agreed with them because in most of the cases I found myself between the devil and the deep sea each time I made a fundamental decision and many times I regret afterwards. Anyway I can’t wait to read the second part of your article.

Besides, boyi, do you remember a girl by name Florence who seated next to you on my birthday’s party at my place? She sent you her greetings. The girl boyi is crazy about you. Since that day she never stopped talking about you. She loves your personality and describes you as a serious guy. If you don’t mind send a small greeting card to her when you reply to me, she will appreciate it. I hope you won’t call my request a “external influence”…. ha ha ha --)) Keep studying hard boyi. Hope to see you soon.

Faithfully yours Chishimba.”

white-christmas-song, very-merry-christmas-disney

Again it’s time to exchange gifts with our beloved one's, with our families and friends and this is the only period we share joy, happiness and staying close with our family. At the same time, it’s the days we prepare to receive our Lord Jesus Christ.

But the question I would love to ask everyone is that, what is the importance of the period? Those who knows they can share with me in the comments and not only with me but to the world at large. And this festival period, it’s the time we remember with our friends and family, especially some of us who are far away from our families. For those who are married they dedicate this period to their loved one and their children.

Christmas brought us together, and lets us remember to share with those who don't have so that together we may rejoice. Let's us pray for peace in the world, and give thanks to God who had made us to be present during this period. We may also pray to those who are dying during this period especially for those who had hoped to celebrate together. Let also remember our leaders of the nations, especially those who promote peace and justice to all men kind.

Those who drive, let us drive with care! So that as we are waiting for that day, we maybe arrive safely, it’s very sad and painful to those who died after celebration, therefore during that day; we don't have to be drunk if we will know that we will drive.

Let also pray for those who are in hospitals, maybe to make it reasonable for those who are sick, for those who are in crisis, for those who had no hope for the future, that God may help them release how worthy they are to the world. For those who are rich, lets us share with those who are poor. For those are born during this period, we may give them the presents they deserve.

If you hate someone, this is the time you can reconcile, this is all I can share to the world, and if I missed something you may add in the comments so that those who will read this message may all read also your comment. Remember that you are serving the lives of people who are in DANGE. Your commet can save several millions of people. This is my message for Christmas to the world. Happy Christmas and Happy a New Year.

merry christmas to all

Juventus Vs Novara 2-0 ( Italian League) / Barcellona Vs Santos 4-0 final 2011

Barce vs santos

Juve Vs Novara

Juventus is one of my favority clubs in the world and I really feel it to be a supporter, GO JUVE GO: i started supporting Juventus when i was very.  well come back Fabio Quagle.........!!!

Barcellona the world chiampion club in the world, Barce won 4-0 against Santos, braziallian club.